Ken Gould, real estate agent and coach, Agent Performance Coaching podcast Episode 6, Stop Sitting Open Houses. Start Monetizing Them

How to Get Leads From Open Houses: Stop Sitting Open Houses. Start Monetizing Them

November 11, 2026•6 min read

By Ken Gould | Real Estate Coach

I hear agents say it all the time. "I'm going to sit an open house this weekend."

Well, there's your first problem. You're planning to sit. Not work.

I see agents spend three or four hours at an open house, then tell me open houses don't work. My question is always the same: What did you do to make it work?

Usually they updated MLS, posted on social, put out a few signs, opened the door and waited. Then packed up and said, "Well, that was a waste of my time."

The open house wasn't the waste. The opportunity was.

I've sold my own listings to buyers who walked in without an agent. I've represented buyers who came through on listings that weren't mine. I've had visitors buy nothing that day and later become sellers. And one open house I held for another agent turned into four transactions.

That's not luck. That's a system. And that's what this week's podcast episode is about.

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Sitting vs. Working an Open House

Sitting and working are two different mindsets. And the mindset decides what you do before the doors open, while people are there, and after everybody leaves.

The open house doesn't start when you unlock the door. It starts with the planning. And it doesn't end when you pull the signs. It ends when you've followed up and have a way to stay connected with the people you met.

That's the system.

Pick the Right House and Know It Cold

No listing of your own? Find an agent who has one and ask to hold it open. I've done it, and it's turned into business and referrals later. Get permission, and know your brokerage's policy and the listing agent's expectations.

But don't take a house just because somebody said you could. Think about location, price point, the neighborhood, and the buyer it'll attract. Is it in an area where you want to build business? Your time has value.

Then do your homework. The square footage, the taxes, the schools, the competing properties. Be the neighborhood expert. "Let me verify that and get back to you" is fine, and it's a natural way to get contact info. "I'm not sure, it's not my listing" over and over is not.

Create Traffic Before You Open the Door

Yes, promote it online. That's just the beginning.

12 signs. Minimum. Not on every empty patch of grass. I pull up Google Maps or the MLS map and place them to pull people in from high-traffic areas. Make it easy to find. Follow local rules and community restrictions, of course.

Then the neighbors. Not a post in the neighborhood Facebook group. I knock on 10 doors to the left, 10 to the right, 10 in front, and 10 behind, where the layout allows. That's 40 chances for a conversation. Go out a day or two before.

Respect no-soliciting signs. Nobody home? Leave a flyer or door hanger where it's allowed.

The point isn't just foot traffic. Those neighbors are homeowners. I want to be somebody they recognize before the open house even starts.

Why I Want the Looky-Loos

Some agents don't want the neighbors coming through. Looky-loos. Just curious, want to see what they did to the kitchen, no intention of buying.

Well guess what? I want those people at my open house.

They own homes. Someday some of them are going to sell. I've had neighbors come through out of curiosity and come back to me when they were ready to sell. Not because I cornered them in the kitchen. Because they remembered the conversation and how I treated them.

The person who isn't buying today might be selling next year.

Talk to People Without Hovering

Don't say "Hi, welcome, take a look around," and go back to your phone. Don't follow people room to room either. There's a difference between giving space and being disengaged.

Welcome everybody. Build rapport. Do they live nearby? Are they relocating? Working with an agent? Do they already own a home?

Sometimes I'll say, "Hey, welcome to the open house. Which home in the neighborhood are you thinking of selling?"

A lot of buyers are also sellers. The person who needs to sell before they can buy. The condo owner moving to a single-family home. The downsizer. Those are listing opportunities.

Put the phone down and listen. "We love this neighborhood, but our house hasn't sold yet." That's worth a follow-up question.

For contact info, give people a reason: another property, recent sales, a vendor, what their own home might be worth. Make it relevant, and be clear about how you'll use it.

The Open House That Turned Into Four Transactions

I held an open house for an agent in my office. Not my listing. I followed my system, and somebody came through who became my buyer client.

He didn't buy that house. I helped him find the right neighborhood and we bought another home. Then referrals came from that relationship, and those turned into three more transactions.

One borrowed open house. One relationship. Four transactions.

Does that happen every time? No. I wish it did. But the business wasn't the house. It was the relationship.

Follow Up the Same Day

You can do everything else right and still leave business on the table if you don't follow up. And most agents try once or twice and quit.

My rule: same day. Between visitors, before I leave, or that evening. Worst case, the next morning. No excuses. I want the conversation fresh, and I want them to see that when I say I'll do something, I do it.

Base it on the conversation, not one generic email. Thinking of selling in six months? I treat it like three. Three months? I treat it like 45 days.

And no reply doesn't mean no. People are busy. They're not always ghosting. If they've welcomed contact, stay connected.

What About a Slow Open House?

"Ken, only two people came through."

OK. Did you invite the neighbors? Who were those two people? Does either one own a home? Did you set up a follow-up?

Traffic matters. But I'd rather have a handful of real conversations than a packed, chaotic house where nobody connects with me. Then review it. Wrong house? Wrong timing? Marketing? Conversations? Find the gap and adjust.

Make Open Houses a Real Lead Source

You can't write "open houses" on your plan and expect business to show up. Decide how many you'll work, how you'll pick them, how you'll prepare, how many conversations you're after, and how you'll follow up. That's what turns activity into a lead source.

Your assignment this week: Plan your next open house differently. Pick the right house. Learn it. Place your signs. Knock on doors a day or two before. Be present, ask questions, and follow up the same day. Then count the conversations you created, not just the people who walked in.

Next time somebody asks what you're doing this weekend, don't say you're sitting an open house. Say you're working one. Then actually work it.

Don't just sit in an open house. Monetize it.

So, what are you going to do differently this week?


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